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June 19, 7:00 pm

Opening Up Reading & Discussion Bestselling author and Village Voice columnist Tristan Taormino will read from her new book, Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships and share what she learned from all the people she interviewed in open relationships around the country. Plus, she’ll take questions and facilitate a discussion on the benefits and challenges of venturing beyond monogamy.

Location: Left Bank Books, 399 North Euclid at McPherson in the Central West End, St. Louis, MO 63108
Admission: Free
Info: 314-367-6731
Email: info (at) left-bank.com

I don’t dress up in outfits because being bossy isn’t a part to play…..
As soon as I finished typing that I realized it was really dead on. I have never been into wearing fetish gear. I like black boots but I like them regardless of their kink factor. I never really thought about why I don’t get into the fetish clothing but I think this finally hits the nail on the head. Putting on fetish clothing feels like (to me) putting on a costume to play a part. I am dominant in my vanilla life, it’s not something that comes and goes. I like to be in control. Even during vanilla sex I like to be in control, it’s hard for me to lie back and receive.

Hmm maybe that’s why I don’t like receiving oral! It requires me to lay back and let things happen to me and that’s not what floats my boat. Though I’ve recently been fantasizing about it in a scene and find it erotic. The dynamic changes in a scene and I would be in control of the subbie doing the monkey kissing

Updated my profile and started sending/replying. I am more excited about meeting someone now that I am free to have sexual interactions if I choose to. I am certainly going to seek out a houseboy as well I deserve one after all.